The interesting thing about getting older is the perspective that one gains in the process. You realize that all those decisions that you’ve made over the years, ultimately led to pivotal points in your life. Looking back,
one either has regrets or is happy with the decisions they’ve made. It’s usually a mixture of both. Regardless of a decision’s outcome, they all play their part in the life we have.
Some of the decisions I made early on in my “adult life”, charted the course of my future. Perhaps, one of the biggest was my decision to take a sabbatical from Syracuse University where I was studying architecture. I was a sophomore and only 19 years old, but I had an insatiable curiosity for the world beyond academia. So, instead of returning to college in September, I took off for Europe. My plan was to meet up with a friend and travel around Europe and be home by Christmas. The short story is that when I arrived in Munich and my friend wasn’t there, I made the decision to do what I set out to do – travel around Europe, except now I would be doing it on my own.
The long story is that I eventually met up with my friend a couple months later in Greece and we traveled around together until she went back to the U.S and I stayed. I ended up traveling (mostly hitch hiking) around the world for a year and when I got home, I knew that I wanted to pursue a lifestyle that centered on travel and exploration. I decided to become a photographer and use my camera as a means to that end.
I never did return to my studies at Syracuse University. I headed to California, graduated from Brooks Institute and eventually came back East to make my mark in the editorial world – and I have in a richly rewarding way. A lot as happened in my life since the day I made that decision to take a “break” from my studies so long ago, and I am grateful for all the opportunities and joy it has brought to my life.
I have just returned from a trip up to Syracuse. I had been asked to moderate a discussion for an ASMP event, with National Geographic photographer, David Doubilet and Mike Davis, Alexia Chair for Documentary Photography at Newhouse School. It was a fabulous event and was well attended by students from 9 different colleges in the area – all so eager to learn and make their mark on the world.
After the event was over, I reflected back on my days at SU and the life I’ve had since then. Somehow despite the angst and chaos of the times and the naiveté of youth, I made the “right” decision that changed the course of my life. Here I was, decades later, at Syracuse University moderating a discussion between a legendary shooter for the “Geographic” and an esteemed editor and educator from the Newhouse School of Journalism. I smiled at how the universe continues to connect the dots in my life – that is when I tune into it and “see” what it has in store for me.